►►Want To Improve With Women? THIS will CHANGE YOUR LIFE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2fVlYP0uN04
(UPDATE 2015**: I made this video 2 years ago and would not repeat some of what I said in this video now. However, overall I still think there is lots of good wisdom in this vid!) ---------- ---------- Perhaps the biggest core mistake you'll make along your life journey is that you live in an objective universe. You don't. You live in a world of energy. Grow your masculine energy, and the feminine energy will come into your life. This is a polarized universe. Grow your masculine polarity.. and the female polarity will come.
Some possible xcuses:
-I'm ugly. Girls don't like ugly guys.
-Girls won't like me because I have a small penis.
-I can't attract girls because I'm not popular.
-Girls don't like me because of my height.
-I can't get girls because I'm poor.
-Girls are not attracted to guys from my ethnicity.
-I can't attract girls because I'm fat.
-Girls won't like me because I barely have any friends.
While these thoughts might have some validity, making these excuses is only going to continue to hurt you.
The ONLY thing you need to attract girls and have girls like you is something you were born with- your masculine energy.
Whether you grow or lower that energy, it's up to you. Part of the masculine energy is accepting what is reality and not making excuses. So if your making any excuses- your just lowering your masculine energy.
Every single "excuse" I have been messaged.. I know real life-people who have whatever that "excuse" is- who attract very beautiful girls. The reason that these guys get girls is because they understand that we live in a universe of energy. And they have grown their masculine energy inside them. There are ZERO excuses. Any "excuse" you have is just that- an EXCUSE. The only person stopping you from growing your masculine energy is yourself.
If you feel that you're fat, or poor, or whatever.. still work on yourself. Hit the gym, work hard to make money etc. Part of the masculine energy is being the best version of yourself. But realize that there are guys that are fat and broke who attract very beautiful girls just because they emulate the masculine spirit. "How did THAT GUY get with that really attractive girl?" is a very common expression. Grow your masculine energy and you can become "THAT GUY".
And I'm not particularly talking about like Arnold Schwarzenegger masculine energy per say. Here are some adjectives that I say encompass masculine energy: having a strong sense of yourself & completely owning your yourself, loving yourself and yet at the same times always working on moving into more and more of a better version of yourself, facing your fears, putting yourself out there socially, showing up to women as a man, being responsible for your actions and being aware of how your actions affect others, making the world a better place and spreading love & truth, being kind, being healthy, being an extremely honest person and sharing your deepest thoughts and emotions with others, loving and embracing exactly who you are, being self-assured, not comparing yourself to others, not being needy best you can etc., showing your intention with girls, being vulnerable, creating value and making the world a better place through your passion, spreading love, chasing passions and living a life you are proud of etc. Doing what you love because you love doing it, rather than trying to impress people (status, money, looks) is SUPER important.
And regarding the feminine energy.. when the feminine energy comes- it might not necessarily be a girl who looks like a model. I have found that there can be really physically attractive girls who initially interest me.. but later learn that they have a "weak energy" and I quickly lose attraction to these girls. The girls who are the most attractive embody the FEMININE ENERGY. Other times there will be a girl who isn't the most physically attractive.. but as I get to know her, her feminine energy is very strong and I'm very attracted to her. The girls you attract will have an equal and opposite feminine energy. And that chemistry with that feminine energy is what you truly desire.
I'll probably make more vids regarding masculine energy, define it better, and talk about ways to grow the masculine spirit in the future.
BTW, I'm officially doing a skype interview with Elliott Hulse in early October. Comment below if you have any questions you would like me to ask him. :)
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