In this video I have a message to all the Porn Addict Dads and Husbands out there regarding the most popular genre of pornography on the web - teen porn.
For the past two years, the search term “teen” has been the top search around the world. It’s also number one in the United States.
I know, through first hand experience and my work with clients all over the world at www.themindfulhabit.com. Men gravitate towards teen porn and I’m here to tell you that’s it’s unhealthy and tell you why you need to stop.
First, this genre is exploiting our evolutionary drive towards younger woman. For thousands of years (at least), men have, on average, mated with younger women, That's because, if all else is equal, "those who reproduce earlier, their genes are passed on faster," Simple evolutionary biology
If you are in a committed monogamous relationship and over 30 let’s say - think about what this genre is teaching you about beauty and sexuality. It’s corrupting your hard drive brother and in no way can it be moving you closer to your partner.
Second, it’s pseudo child porn - you know it and I know it. These young women, though 18 are often posed with pigtails, braces, slender and flat chested, stockings, in child like situations. Then they are brutally violated. You know and I know it.
Yet the mind hides behind the legal fact that the woman is 18 - if she’s seventeen or younger, you go to jail if you possess the exact same content- but at 18 it’s morally right? I don’t think so.
Pseudo-child porn not only implicitly endorses child abuse, it enculturates the viewer to eroticize children.
And as a father and a husband, I want you to ask yourself, is this the man you want to be? Do you want to sexualize children - because that’s what’s happening when you’re watching teen porn - the most popular
We are living in a society that is sexualizing our girls at a younger and younger age - and I need you to know that porn is on this spectrum. And I want you to be part of the solution, not the problem. So embrace your power of choice.
Craig Perra, J.D., C.P.C., is a Certified Professional Coach specializing in eliminating sex addiction and porn addiction fast. He coached men and couples at one of the top sex and porn addiction treatment centers in the United States before founding The Mindful Habit – a revolutionary behavior change modality that drives results fast for compulsive sexual behavior – porn addiction and sex addiction. He now coaches clients in 14 countries all over the world and has worked with senior executives, professionals, entrepreneurs, lawyers, doctors, and hard working men who want – and expect – results fast.
He appeared on The Katie Couric Show with his wife Michelle and has been featured in national and international publications.
He’s a licensed attorney (in CT), a former business executive for billion dollar U.S. Companies, and serves in leadership roles locally in the Rocklin/Sacramento, CA area. He coaches his daughter’s soccer team, his son’s basketball team, involved in community theater, and speaks locally on Internet Safety to parents and educators. Craig also lectured at the Annual Conference for the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health.
Craig literally amassed thousands of hours of leadership, success, risk, and behavior change training at top tier educational institutions and Fortune 500 companies. He has a BA and a JD from The University of Connecticut.
“I’ve merged my personal experience with the science of habit, mindfulness, and ACTION to create revolutionary coaching programs that will connect you with the life you want fast.”